Hello everyone!
I have one really interesting question for you. You are free to express different opinions :)
So. At my work I have one guy and I really like him. I want to ask him for a date. But I'm not sure if it will be okay to start relationships at work. I've never had it before.
I don't know what to do and I want to know what other people think about it...
Of course I also don't want to lose my job because of it.
This could be construed as sexual harassment or not? (I read about that a lot https://mosheslaw.com/laborandemployment/sexual-harassment-lawyer/, don't want to find myself there, you know)
Thanks in advance

    I think it depends on how you do it and how much he likes you back.

    But to be fair, double check if you can have workplace relationships (most places to my understanding don't).

    As well as double check if this guy likes you back. If you get an inkling that he doesn't then maybe don't ask him? Idk, but I'd feel awkward having to go back to work knowing that this guy knows I like him theoretically. Or other way around, he might feel awkward knowing someone at work likes him.

    I don't think you will lose your job if he accepts the offer or rejects you. I mean as long as you're polite and don't just bombastically ask him out.

    I don't mean for this to make you feel bad, at the end of the day it's up to you as to what you do.

    just my two cents but damn this is long. My b.

    Harper_Lee does your company allow such relationships? If there are no policies against it, I'd suggest finding ways to be friends or working on some projects together. That way you can sort of get an idea if this person is worth pursuing. Bonding over mutual interests or jobs is also a more natural way to get to where you can ask him out without the awkwardness. Good luck!

        ealdgyth to tell the truth I'm not sure about workplace relationships, it's only my second month in the company, I didn't ask about that yet.
        Thank you guys for expressing your views, it helps me to better understand what to do :)

          Relationships in the workplace are not welcomed by management. as information leakage is possible ... and this is your choice, maybe it is fate? But this is your choice and you are not a victim of your choice.

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