Hi, I’m Piokilek. As a man, I want to give you guys some advice of how to deal with women. The advice will be real so I’m sorry if you feel offended. (Not sorry at all.) By the way, girls can use those too.
Here are some tips on how to make your crush like you back.
Smiling is a powerful weapon. Others will think you are more approachable and easy to talk to. Of course, don’t smile like a maniac and if you don’t have a good smile, just a gentle one would do. Don’t forget to smile!
If she doesn’t know you but you are interested, when you talk to her for the first time, smile a lot, laugh, say something funny to make her laugh too. (Add a compliment - but not something cheesy like you look pretty. Be smart dude. Say her glasses match well with her clothes or that her outfit looks bomb today. Say she has a great sense of fashion. She probably heard that she is pretty 12304235123 times. Impress her with something new.)
- Be yourself!
It mights sound like a no brainier but people don’t like lies. You might try to pretend and act cool in front of her but one day or another, she will find out your true self so its best to be upfront with your personality.
Of course, if you are a dumb piece of shit and want to pretend your are not, stop looking for a girlfriend. Only search for a girlfriend if you are ready to be a boyfriend. Find a job (There is nothing better in a man than a sense of security coming from him), take care of yourself (Both physically and mentally) and stop being boring! If you don’t do anything interesting, your whole self will be boring. Find hobbies that are interesting to talk about. Make your crush curious, willing to talk to you to find out more about you.
- Eye Contact!
Show that you are interested! Smile and look her directly into the eyes, but don’t act like a creep. Just a few seconds longer than usual is enough. If she catches you staring at her, she will think you are a creep, simple.
- BE DIRECT.
What I mean by this is, say what you want to do. Don’t just follow her like a sheep and listen to her. Women like men who knows what they want. Naturally, don’t force your opinion on her. Give her a chance to agree or disagree.
By direct I also mean -> Tell her you are interested, ask her out. Don’t do it at the start just after meeting her. Let her get to know you better first. Don’t be scared of friendzone, its just a myth. Girls friend-zone guys they don’t want to date. They are just too kind to say no so they compensate it by being your friend.
ITS NOT A LOSS. CONGRATS, YOU WON A LOTTERY.
You got a beautiful friend! USE IT! Pretty girls has a lot of hot friends! She can help find a girl for you. Don’t be sad when girl doesn’t want you. This is your chance. (Also, having hot female friends is dope.)
- Flirt with her. Tease her a lot. Make her laugh.
Basically make sure she is having a good time around you. If you tease her, she will try to tease you back which strengthen the closeness between you two.
- Be mysterious.
Don’t reveal everything to her at the start. Make sure there is always something new about you she learns as you tighten your relationship. This way she will think you are more interesting than you actually are. (It also opens your way for cool conversations with her.)
- Don’t be her friend she can always count on.
This is a common mistakes we “guys in love” do. We are there for them 24/7, and reply 5 seconds after she message us. THATS WRONG. She will think you have nothing going on in your life and your whole existence is there to help her whenever she needs it.
Get your life together boyyyy!
Say you are busy with something. She will be interested and ask what it is BUT DON’T TELL HER. Say its a secret, but if she is a good girl, you will tell her. (This sounds cheesy af but trust me, it works!) She will bug you every day to tell her. (Make sure its an actual interesting secret else she beat your ass.) Keep her hanging and then tell her to hang out with you and you will show her. (Idk, your hobby could be ice skating and you take her to show your skills.)
- Don’t force a conversation with her. Don’t be obsessive.
Don’t force her to talk to you every single day, 24/7. She has her own shit and you have yours. You will make her fed up with you pretty quickly. The best method is to stay natural. Its okay to go one or two days without talking. If she doesn’t talk, send her a small text, saying you were busy past few days so you didn’t have time to chat and ask how is she.
If you like a guy, just tell them they are handsome and ask for their number. If he start chatting with you, he find you attractive. If he tries to find an excuse, he doesn’t find you attractive. Simple.
If you get his phone, then just say you like him after hanging out a bit and if he likes you back, he will date you. If he doesn’t, don’t force your way. There are plenty of other guys who are still lonely and want some hugs. (Me.) WE ARE SIMPLE AF. JUST TELL US YOU WANT US.
This seems to be long already. I can do Part 2 if people are interested.
P.S. If the girl says she is fine. She is not fine.
If she say she is good, then she is fine.
If she is great, that means she is good. <3