Flaffy he new mod of the server Millman had clearly shot himself in the foot as a silent rule he claimed was written was in fact not written at all

The rule is still written in the rules channel. And I don't want to get into the last issue again, but the channel topics are clearly written, there was an announcement stating to keep server discussion to the appropriate channel (albeit said in a joking tone), and you were warned by me.

Flaffy I just looked at my previous forum post and it seems my claims are being downplayed as just complaining about a troll.

The reason people don't take your complaints seriously is because you twist facts.

That being said, when you messaged me on discord privately, I went to look at what happened. I didn't see a ping, so I don't know if you were pinged or not, however Billdoor had called you a whore. I immediately server muted him, which I then told you about in response to your private message.

This morning we made a mod role with some more powers so someone else can help out and added a bot to log all messages.

IMO, this post was completely unnecessary since the issue was resolved almost immediately after I saw your message.

Olivia I do have admin rights, but that was only for adding and configuring some bots. However, since the server had 0 moderation before, I've kind of taken over that now as well.

Flaffy if he wasn't a mod he wouldn't be sending people DMs threatening to ban them.

I'm pretty certain I've never threatened to ban you, and I've certainly never threatened to ban anyone in a DM. Please don't lie about me.

Billdoor I got my ban

It was a server mute, not a ban. Although it's the longest mute I've given so far.

Gamblejay The things talked about in there are just plain fuckin weird like people being proud of Pedos.

I have no idea where you got this from, I've never seen anything like this there. If you want to message me about your concerns then please feel free to.

Flaffy I dont think I need much advice in all honesty like i said it irritates me more that i was not able to handle it the same way i otherwise would which is to hurl an insult back and have it out with the person. The reason i wouldn't be able to is again because of the people in that discord hide behind their rules that they dont follow. If i break the rule its immediately enforced if one of them breaks the rule nothing happens. So i took this approach to ensure something if anything would happen, since i wasnt allowed to respond the way I wanted.

Ok, by the time you sent this message, you'd definitely received my response to you on discord saying that I'd muted him. I don't really get what more you want from this post at this point...

Citlalicue the way is being answered and handled by people working/contributing for this site is just ridiculous. The way they conduct themselves is a joke. Zero efficiency and professionalism.

A response was given to both users involved within a couple of hours (as soon as I saw the messages). If you have suggestions regarding my efficiency and professionalism, I would like to hear them.

                    Millman97 I mean you can search for Pedophile or a variant of it and get some 150+ results just in the month of April alone.

                    Even the guy you muted went on a mini rant saying how stupid the chat was due to being filled with worthless talk about it. Which I completely agreed with.

                    There is even a Pedo Bear emote.

                    I wouldn't call it a concern just not a chat that's my cup of tea. Most of it's just nonsense and harmless but people do glorify it when you start reading the actual chats. It just seems creepy and weird to have an obsession with children and sex.

                    To each their own.

                        Millman97 "being" as in this post and the content of the images she provided. If you read the whole thread you'llsee it. But telling her "she twists things" kiiiiinda makes her point. Advising her to communicate with better accuracy or say nothing at all is a more appropriate way to say it. And I think that's why she provided this images, maybe, because she's accused of lying, twisting things, blaming others or blowing things out of proportion. I DO NOT dare to say that she's right or wrong. Just the way this was being handled right now was not appropriate on either part.

                            Whatever happens with this, don't give any people from either side mod privileges. That's how SJWs infiltrate communities. They complain and complain about everything, then when the mods/admins can't satisfy them they start asking for power to change things.

                            After some time more and more SJWs get into power while normal people just stand by the side and watch in horror at what they're doing to the communities.

                            Just have people that follow the rules of the community be mods and deal with things on a case by case basis and treat everyone equally.

                            Personally, I think this is just nonsense.
                            People do not call names for no reason. And additionally, (in my opinion) nearly everything on discord is said sarcastically and has no real value behind it.

                            It's just that some people don't understand the sarcasm and think we are evil beings.
                            I don't know if this is also with other boys/men ; but in case with my friends IRL, we insult each other on a daily basis and laugh it off.

                            It seems that some people just can't handle that here.

                            But I will watch this thread - for fun.
                            grabs popcorn
                            :smile: :popcorn:

                              Millman97 See? You gotta be precise otherwise you'll be misunderstood..... I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be a pain, but, I deal with complaints all the time, and learned you gotta be more politically correct nowadays. I gotta give you credit because so far, you're the only one addressing this in a more appropriate manner.

                                Flaffy That sounds fair. If someone calls you something you should be able to curse back. If the one who is cursing has the authority to ban you, then the chat server is not worth your time. You can come curse in other medium in a more passive but devastating way.

                                    Flaffy Hey, Been busy lately.
                                    So I don't know what happened there and I still don't completely understand the core of the issue even after reading most of the above comments.
                                    I don't use discord or FB too much, so I am probably uninformed.
                                    You and that group seem to have long lasting issues and the group is pretty aggressive. And they have the power to mute you when you want to be aggressive right? I have no issue with people cursing unless it goes out of hand. I am not sure about the root of the issue so no comments on that. The best option is to ignore the discord server completely, but that means you are punishing yourself. I understand the feeling of someone talking behind your back is bad. @Flaffy I don't know what I can do for this.

                                    My take on the issue is,
                                    The one controlling the chat server has to follow the rules and be impartial. Having a hypocritical admin makes it disheartening to even visit the server.

                                    @Neverfire7 @Tugster @Miya @Supreme_Idler What is even going on there? Feed me some info plz. I don't want to dig through the long chat history.

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