grimreaper906 I just realized how identical this is to the son-in-law stories. They are always hiding their identities even though they are supposedly some underworld boss, CEO, young master of a super-family, general, or whatever, but they decide to pretend to be trash...just because.
Then when people insults him or his wife (funnily enough his wife and his in-laws do most of the insulting), then he's lke f it! I'll show you plebians I'm the greatest in the world! And starts flexing his power.
And I doubt the misunderstanding is only for idiot female main characters. A lot of the male main characters in cultivator stories do precisely that. "They are just insects, why should I bother?" Because they cause you and your family a lot of trouble later, you moron? Ugh...