idkmylifeisamess I mean, if luck isn't plot armor, then I don't know what is. Every story has it to some extent. Some are just over the top, and some are minor.
WOMEN ARE TERRIFYING ON THIS WEBSITE!
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I have no problem with bxb but I don't really read it. My friend (girl) loves to talk to me about it everytime... with all the squealing and such. It's even more terrifying when she starts "captioning" or formulating stories when we come across a group of guys at a mall or the streets.
Seeing that they have come here and can't control themselves... I'm kinda worried reading the comments section now.
I hope they don't go as far as elaborating private stuffs... My friend is already so much for me to handle. 
lozlo
No offense, I actually feel flattered!
Besides my BL story, I have five more, two in hiatus and three active ones, I will put the links at the end of the comment.
I am a woman and I do not like this kind of thing of being humiliated to gain love ... For me this is sickness!
I am one of the people who criticize about this kind of valorization of domestic violence and rape, as if it were normal to be seen as love!
It's wrong! I hate even more who says this is culture!
No longer enough are the 1x1 novels in which the characters (Ml and FL) seem to live a life of disagreement and problems of 5-year-old children. Yes, five years old, because I can not see adults in these types of novels. What does it cost to sit and talk about relationship problems?
Am I the crazy one here? However, these novels in which it is full of misunderstanding is still close to reality because I have seen relationships work that way in the real world, taking into account that I think both parties need psychological treatment. >>>> The question is at least it's real!
I do not know if I could explain myself right ?!
Links:
https://www.webnovel.com/book/11639355206451405/I-am-reincarnated-as-the-Female-Leader%2C-but-I-want-to-marry-the-villain!
https://www.webnovel.com/book/11547345006417705/The-Power-of-Blood
https://www.webnovel.com/book/11737011605504505/The-girl-who-wanted-to-be-a-hero%2C-but-reincarnate-as-a-villain!
If you want you can even read the other two in hiatus.
Xoxo
NuffZedd
Ohhh, so there's this kind of girl ?!
I'm surprised, I thought it was just anime and manga!
Well I like BL and I do not wonder if friends or groups of friends are more than that. Is weird. Not to mention that, what do I have to do with them?
I do not know why but when I imagine this friend of yours, I can not help but laugh at you and her, it must be embarrassing.
I have a friend (girl), who talks very loud, so when she saw (now she is married and pregnant) a very handsome boy, she would comment aloud and then walk away, leaving me and my other friends being faced by this "boy handsome, "as if we were the ones who had spoken of him!
I put it just to say, that I also have a friend that embarrasses me .... That's because she does not like BL, if she did, I would already be dead of shame!
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Zetheryl I understand, But I've seen worse, grown men and teenage boys who like hentai. Which we all know is about rape fantasies and pedophilia. Harem novel enthusiasts who really really like the vapid representations of women that make up that harem which was highly likely to have been written by an author who most likely lives in a basement, barely knows women outside from porn sites and the afore-mentioned hentai.
One of the girls I work with likes to read these boy on boy books, and shows and youtube boy on boy fanvids etc. Good God. She even showed me the vids about harry and niall from one direction being in love. Watching that vid almost made me a believer. Anyway... I think what mostly hooks girls on these is probably the idea of two attractive people falling in love despite everything that says they shouldn't. Which is basically the whole concept of romance. I think them being of the same gender adds to the spice. Sort of like guys who think girl on girl is hot.
Take_the_Moon Yep, I know. But I wanted you to pick the one you like the most. ;p
I might read the others later, but I'll only start with one. And probably not until next week.
I have some things I need to catch up on, bleh. I was lazy last week and got behind on some work.
It is a sickness on some level. But the cause varies from person to person, and it's hard to help those people. Then again, I think most people in this world have a distorted view of love. It's probably been like that for a very long time considering the history of every country.
Communications is a big issue with relationships though. It's a major cause of many failed relationships. And it boggles my mind that people can get in a serious relationship with someone, but not be willing to talk to them when there is a problem. Or so I say. I guess I understand some of it, but not all of it. Opening up to someone can be hard. However, if you can't be open with them, should you really be in an intimate relationship with them? I don't think so. Maybe I'm crazy though.
They probably needed psychological treatment long before they even started the relationship, lol. But, don't we all on some level? Oh well.
lozlo
In short: We are all crazy on some level and we need treatment!
We agree on one more thing: If you cannot open yourself to a person, how should you be in an intimate relationship with that person ?!
Well, as you said, maybe I'm crazy, too? Or you will see that "love" is the problem! Hahahahaha! Pity the "love" that takes the guilt of everything!
Ohhhh I await your decision on the story.
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Take_the_Moon So you're not going to tell me which one is your favorite? lol.
I'm indecisive by nature. But I guess I can read the synopsis for them later and pick one. ;p
I might go take a nap first. And mess up my sleep cycle again, lol. I just feel kind of bleh the last few days. Oh well.
lozlo
My favorite is the mature 1x1 novel, with well-made character descriptions with strong female characters. All my stories I try to create a strong character, it reads: I try.
I like that: https://www.webnovel.com/book/11639355206451405/I-am-reincarnated-as-the-Female-Leader%2C-but-I-want-to-marry-the-villain!
TheGentlemenWorld Why when everything in this world is deceitful? Women wear makeup to hide their faces, we wear coloured contacts, dye our hair, pluck our eyebrows, remove hair and present ourselves according. Just like their are some guys who are the same or people who believe they were born the wrong gender. Tom boys, pretty boys, transgender it's life. But I gotta say I do love me some gender bender so if you can let me know what novel that was 
Take_the_Moon would you like reading my novel Hinder-Rella.
The ml is incredible loving and devoted while the fl is the one that runs off to do dangerous things. Slow story.
I added it in my library, as soon as I finish my things I will read. The premise looks good!
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Take_the_Moon Alright. I'll take a look at that one then. :p
Water0202020 Oh god... are you trying to kick a damn hornets nest?
So... Why the hell does this have 33 posts?
lozlo Yeah, the whole rape this is pretty off putting. I mean, I'm sure it happens and it could be an avenue to go down in exploring love... I do feel it is over represented though. I would never write that sort of situation for a leading character! shudder In fact I straight up frowned upon that stuff in my book. I don't think (personally) we should be romanticizing that sort of behavior. To each his own though...
BabyTanuki This is one of those situations where I don't feel "to each his own." Rape should never be romanticized. People who try to romanticize it should be castrated and then have a heated metal rod stuffed up their ass so they can experience something that might be comparable. If they learn to love it... We'll go from there. I'm fairly confident they won't learn to love it.
I accept that it happens, but I refuse to accept glorifying it as something good.
I think the best example I can think of is... Revenge. If someone uses it as a way for revenge on someone who did them something wrong... It's still not right. I might be able to understand it. But, even then, you're still going to be punished for doing it. And I'm not going to slacken the punishment, even if I can understand it. Not so much because I feel you're wrong, but because I don't want to condone it, no matter the reason. If you hate someone that much, kill them and be done with it.
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Scarlettbunny I am NOT judging your interests. In fact, I really don't care about your interests, normally, but when you make a post like that, I can't just not scream internally. The book's name is National School Prince Is A Girl
Take_the_Moon
This is an old topic, but I'm glad it was brought up again because I completely agree with you. Even if I was bothered by BL, I would rather have a boy worrying that he's falling in love with a boy who's actually a girl rather than romanticizing rape. At least in the former example, he's going through the actual stages of romance by crushing on someone.
I also remember another topic in some other thread about why are the cold psychopaths so loved by women? And I can attest for a fact that (mentally or emotionally secure?? although I hate to judge) sound-minded women would never want a block of ice that's potentially dangerous. After all, I would hope at least, we want to be loved and secure in our relationships. Rather than romance, I would rather such a story be a psychological drama... Sure, danger can thrilling for a time, but unless the "bad boy" changes, does any girl really want to marry and live with such a jerk? I also don't understand the craze for bad boys, a little mischievousness, humor, and daringness is fun, but constant, purposeful rudeness and teasing should not be the way to catch a girl. I can understand it being "fun" to change someone, but I don't know, I would rather just have a nice chap from the start where we both mutually support and understand one another. Why all this complicatedness? The demands are actually so simple... That's emotions and the heart interfering with our logic I suppose. XD
Ah but I digress. I just simply wish to see better or more original (and realistic) romances on this site.