RachelRuth That's an interesting challenge though. Let me think about all 1000 downsides and 1 upside in dating my ML.
1. He uses his authority to coerce his subordinate in giving up his lover.
2. He's a snob.
3. He doesn't care about people's feelings,
4. He utilizes the open relationship that he and his wife have by taking in a lot of partners.
5. He's a borderline criminal.
F this, I can't find anything positive.