N0xiety Everyone is free to question logic in fiction. However, you should also remember that everyone is free to tolerate the non-existence of logic too in the same way.
Questioning logic in fiction that's not really based on logic is just being a party pooper to be honest. Most people don't read these things based on how believable they are anyway, but on how enjoyable they are. So these people party-pooping your attitude of questioning is to be expected. No one is exactly right in the end. It's a matter of perspective, and a matter of how much you're able to tolerate.
Maybe these stories aren't for you anyway. Maybe there's a story there somewhere that will fit your expectations. You just have to find them. These stories you're complaining about are certainly being enjoyed without any problems by a lot of people. It's impossible to write something that will be liked 100% by everyone anyway so why bother.