@DivineSaintBrando is this what you were talking about? You see? There are rules, and action will be taken. You just gotta bring it to the attention of the moderators so they can deal with it.
NO ONE IS SAFE: From the cyberbully that runs rampart in Qidian Discord
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I don't want to get involved since I like to be invisible. But I can't help myself.
I rarely join the chat on discord. One of the reason is, because the chat is a bit messed up. But honestly, the few times I did join... from my pov, they are not that bad. They did helped me answer a few questions. (I'm not taking side with anyone)
I've been doing my best to not offend anyone. Like saying sorry before make a new discussion (that possibly offend someone), or saying sorry immediately after I thought someone was offend.
Cyber bully is not something we can always avoid. That also happened to quite a few times to me. You are my friend flaffy. And with the time we spent at snowman clan. I respect you.
But it's impossible to have everyone to like us. Among 100 people of our supposed friends. There's bound to be haters in disguise.
Staying invisible make you unknown. Being unknown means they don't know you. Not knowing you mean there's no reason for them to insult you.
Why did they keep going insulting you? Because they know you.
one advice from me. There's one advantage from internet that we can always use. Make a new identity. It doesn't mean we lose, or we scared of the bully. But it's more like for our health. Aren't you guys tired of this?
This drama take a lot of energy.
Peace... I'm not trying to offend anyone here. Sorry if I did.
I like to make friends, not enemy.
And before I get back to work, because I shouldn't be here.
Can you guys let go of the grudge? Wether you are the victim or the bully. I don't care whichever you are or how everything start. It's not a blood feud. Or taking revenge for someone else. No one die, right?
Wait....
Don't tell me there IS?!
Just ignore the fags like Billdoor . People like him who still lives in his moma's house jerking off no real job no life . Fucker probably still virgin so because of this he's calling everygirl whore because that's what he will get even then he have to ask money from his moma.
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TheLonerLion Why did they keep going insulting you? Because they know you.
i agree with you on this. i'm also lowkey not taking any side, or maybe i am. i iz sorry if i offend anyone for stating my opinions.
when people are so hypersensitive over every little detail, accidentally offending people is inevitable. instead, we should all just grow to be more understanding so that i can feel safe stating my personal opinions.
i feel that people are robbing me of my safe space to write what i feel. i'm sorry but i'm won't turn into a robot for y'all, grow a backbone and learn to take hits. or just don't go online, or go out, because the world isn't nice.
learn to deal with it or retreat to your safe space, but don't make this into toxic environment where people are afraid to talk about they don't want to offend.
this safe haven that you create for you is deadly for me. but maybe my voice won't be heard because i learn to deal with jokes without coming to the forum for every little issue.
i'm not talking to anyone, i'm just saying in general. i don't mean to offend, and i apologize before hand. fucking report me if you want, i'm so fucking fed up with this shit.
I read this post and got interesting about the discord.
To be honest, I see all and nothing. So I’m going to pretend that only immature people who don’t respect others says and do things like that. I won’t be going back to dd’s discord again. But yeah. People need to get their personality checks. And their morals. Not that I care about others opinions.
Millman97
Millman im a little tired of going over this with you yet again, you say it is already written inthe rules but guess what hon its not. In rules channel there is the 2 rules from sunny, the old channel rules from maika and 3 from you, one about spamming, another about xp, and the one you added about ignoring the rules. There is NO RULE WRITTEN that says if channel topics are not followed you will be warned and muted and banned for not following the rules there is no rule in that channel that says new role discussions musy be in server suggestion discussion it does not say that! Which brings us to our threat which if you read clearly the last post you made which was made in a response to me after that thing happened!! Clearly says the user will be banned, for those who "do not follow the rules". I have asked you repeatedly to update the rules and you said you "rules will be updated eventually" so dont try to make it seem that i am lying or "twisting" anything because this is what i see and from my point of view the rules were not updated to include that. In my DM you had told me that if i repeated my actions that you ban me, to me that is a threat, a passive one but still is one.
To be clear I wrote this discord post again in frustration because it took you 3-4 hours to respond. This happened at one and you didnt reply to my DM until 5PM EST. Dont make it seem like i posted this after you replied to me, cause thats not what it was, twisting facts huh? Anyways if you vheck my DM you can see i clearly didnt think you would do much and so in my frustration i came here, maybe you missed that point? Don't pretend that your previous actions did not affect my view of you. Based on the previous happenings it seemed more likely if i had not come here but instead had it out with the guy you would have banned me as well. As i said ignoring is not something i do, holding in feelings of rage helps no one, everyone rages onthe internet I am allowed that, just not in your discord sever cause i will be the first to be banned yes?
Millman97 Ok, by the time you sent this message, you'd definitely received my response to you on discord saying that I'd muted him. I don't really get what more you want from this post at this point...
I was responding to the guy based on my feelings at the time and i still feel that had i taken matters into my own hands then like i did here on forums it would have been used as an excuse to ban me. Something like " i dont care who started it, you should have just ignored" like i said based on previous happenings where i get muted for discussing the same colors that YOU WERE WITH ME on the wrong channel i was the one muted and made an example, the people that asked me they dont matter cause i was the example! The fact that you joined in didnt matter cause you know i wass warned by you but you talked with me about it anyways. You can see how my mind would not think you would allow such things. So my point os to get my own satisfaction at having said my words to and about these things without the threat of your ban hanging over my head. Yes it is a threat to me when you have rules that are not updated and say that if we dont follow them we will be banned, i will look likethe sorry fuck to fall in that trap "but it didnt say that...." so I came here where i know i release my rage, and let others know my experience as i saw it through my eyes to warn them of the messy stuff. Sleep with one eye open kind of thing.
I appreciate you taking the time to mute the guy, i hope we wont need to go through this again with some changes implemented.
wow. Reading this thread is more like reading a book.
And not the good sort of book, but a boring school-book.
I will surely not read all those long texts here. Just the short ones.
NineNeatherBird thats where you are wrong nether, me and bill arent friends. Just like you and i arent friends. And the difference between you and Bill is that you dont seek me out to say nasty things. I was never talking to bill yet he CHOSE to bring me up and say nasty things and that is different from what you are saying.
And to clarify for all the people who keep saying hypersenstive blah de blah refer to:
KingBiBiK That sounds fair. If someone calls you something you should be able to curse back.
For me as i said i did not feel that was an option. As i said before i dont bottle my feelings up i like to release them, especially in a direct way back to the person who was aggressive to me. If i had done so, based on my past experience of my first time in the discord where i was banned under the pretense of arguing!! I felt i would get similar results. Like i said i was more upset by the fact that i could not respond to it the way i wanted to than the actual insult itself. What made me more upset is that this guy had dug me up, its not like I had already been chatting there cause that wasnt the case. They were picking a fight intentionally and i am not one to shy away, but the server rules being what they are and my prior history what it is, i felt I would be banned if i retaliated, especially considering the mob in that server that would contribute to saying that I was the one overreacting and blah de blahdie, when in fact im just returning what was given to me.
KingBiBiK i had been inactive like i said for 2 weeks and 3 weeks in the chatting channels. I only stay for the casual novel questions/spoilers and the recent happenings of qidian. Because i was also not that active on forums anymore, and it was easier to just click the discord and do a quick skim. I was randomly pinged and that is the only reason why i saw that convo.
Flaffy you say it is already written inthe rules but guess what hon its not. In rules channel there is the 2 rules from sunny, the old channel rules from maika and 3 from you, one about spamming, another about xp, and the one you added about ignoring the rules. There is NO RULE WRITTEN that says if channel topics are not followed you will be warned and muted and banned for not following the rules there is no rule in that channel
The rules are here for a reason, ignoring rules (or channel topics) repeatedly and/or ignoring warnings will result in a server mute. After being unmuted, ignoring the rules again will result in the user's being XP reset. If it happens a third time, the user will be banned.
That's directly copied from the rules channel. Please note the 'or channel topics'.
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Millman97 he he you shot yourself in the foot bruh. Cause that is not the rule i broke that made me get muted. I was muted for not following a silent rule you claimed was explicitly written, it is not.
That rule is a rule about the rules!!! It does not specify the actual broken rules that will get you those things!!
After the rules explicitly state, discussion about the new roles are for the server suggestions channel
Direact quote from you as to why i was muted. Now you wanna tell me where that rule is fool? Oh right you aint get to it yet like i said. So the silent rule continues and im supposed to believe you dont have more? That is my point with the rules that you say you will be punished for not following them butthey are not written. I could be muted xp deprived and banned for any goddam thing with this explanation.
Sorry your not a fool just a little irritated that i have said this countless times already and you seem to be skipping over it
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Millman97 because that is clear and not subjective at all....
And again its not a rule! It's an announcement. Do you know that someone will have to scroll just to see that announcement? You have added new channels and you dont specify the rules of those channels. Maika already made the first 10, you just needed to continue to add the rules as you created the channels. But you didnt and after i told you about it you said eventually. So for me I want you to understand, like i said before you can see why i would be wary of being punished for breaking a silent rule not actually written in the rules!!
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Flaffy It's not a silent rule; it was just added to the announcements before a more general version was made. The day you were muted was the day that announcement was made, so it was the most recent announcement with no scrolling needed and @Everyone was pinged, so everyone should've seen this.
And the new rules in the server are actually coming today thanks to Storm writing them up properly.
As a side note to all women, if you wonder where comedians get the stereotypical jokes about females not letting shit go, constantly bringing up the past and beating dead horses in an argument... I present to you this thread.
Millman97 well thats great news.
But until it is written there it is a silent rule and so you in your previous post making claims about twisting and trying to make it seem like what i said is not true is just false cause the fact is its not a rule its an announcement. And to this timestamp it is still an announcement and it is not explicitly a rule as it does not say it is a rule anywhere in that announcement!! nor does the actual content meet the definition of the word explicit which is clear and detailed which that announcement portion is not!!
I am not a liar and i have never once made up something that didnt happen, i may misunderstand due to lack of information on my part but i always say if something is my opinion or not.
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Gamblejay Yes cause women are supposed to sit back and be insinuated to be liars and allow people to talk crap about what they do and not respond. Oh and lets not forget they have to make the meals and clean the house and god forbid they wear no make up, i can make jokes too buddy but you dont wanna go down that road with me.
I dont think so buddy. Stop trying to change the narrative of my thread. Nice try though, have a nice day thanks for visiting.
Millman is starting to regret ever stepping his foot into the Qidian's Discord server...
Flaffy No no no, it is a rule. There is a rule in the rules channel stating to follow the channel topics. There's an announcement that explicitly states to keep server discussion in server discussion channel. It's not a secret rule.
Also, the point about you twisting the truth was this, but you also straight up lied about me threatening to ban you in DMs.
Millman97 Millman i reallyhate when you do this we just went over this.
IF IT IS AN ANNOUNCEMENT AND IS STILL AN ANNOUNCEMENT A MONTH LATER!!!! IT IS NOT A RULE BUT AN ANNOUNCEMENT!!! If the announcement says to keep server discussions to a specific channel you might wanna make that announcement a rule.
You dont see people announcing laws and not writing them the down do you? Cause then it wouldnt be a law!! It would be an announcement!!
And you did tell me after you muted me and i approached you in DM you accused me of being a troll and that if i did it again you would ban me. That to me is a threat. Maybe to you it is a warning but to me it was a threat.
DaoistFedUp I feel like every morning when the forum page loads and the little circle in the left hand corner appears he does the Bad Boys "WoooSaaah"
BaiSiwa
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Gamblejay i will take those points buddy.
Flaffy +10
Random person -10
Guess im just better at assessing my own gender jokes than you are, who would have thought!! Lmaoo
I'd honestly love to continue this banter but you know, this thread isn't for that so how about you take your jokes here:
https://forum.webnovel.com/d/3566-flaffy-is-gay/16
Flaffy IF IT IS AN ANNOUNCEMENT AND IS STILL AN ANNOUNCEMENT A MONTH LATER!!!! IT IS NOT A RULE BUT AN ANNOUNCEMENT!!! If the announcement says to keep server discussions to a specific channel you might wanna make that announcement a rule.
No. If an admin makes an announcement saying don't do something, that's a rule. And there is a rule in the rules channel for it anyway, I just made it more general when I added it to the rules channel so it would encompass all channels, not just the server suggestions channel.
The rules are here for a reason, ignoring rules (or channel topics) repeatedly and/or ignoring warnings will result in a server mute. After being unmuted, ignoring the rules again will result in the user's being XP reset. If it happens a third time, the user will be banned.
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Flaffy And you did tell me after you muted me and i approached you in DM you accused me of being a troll and that if i did it again you would ban me. That to me is a threat. Maybe to you it is a warning but to me it was a threat.
Where was the mention of a ban here? I think you're misremembering...
Flaffy Sure, whatever makes you happy kid.
If blowing up, throwing a temper tantrum and failing to understand that at the end of the day Millman is still going to be a mod, the people in discord will still dislike you, you changed absolutely nothing but gained more ire then hey... you do you.
Meh.. what's the point of that thread anyway.. if the goal is to bring more hate to either you (flaffy) or the others, well you succeeded .
Honestly, I didn't even read what you wrote, reasons? it's too damn long for what you intend to tell. I can already guess what's the context with everybody else answers.
Must be something like:
~ Not happy, rules not followed, got bullied, blah blah blah.
and the answers are either:
~ Oh, right rules should be enforced and bulling is bad and blah blah blah.
or
~ Reasons, explanations, screenshot, trolls.
and those points go back and forth without any progression.
Let me say it straight, this thread SHOULD NOT be there. This have nothing to do there and should be settled privately and if nothing comes of it then with MAIL towards people with powers, not with a community that doesn't have access to the FULL context.
Thanks you to leave your toxic complaints where we don't see them, thanks .
Anyway, no need to reply to this post and twist facts or whatever, I really don't care.
TL;DR: Stop being toxic and solve this privately.
Millman97 dude...
Millman97 No. If an admin makes an announcement saying don't do something, that's a rule.
Your just making my point that rule can be made up willy nilly by you without users have prior notice just cause you said something sibjective in the announcements channel.
You arent even following your own channel topics rule cause if you were you would have posted the rule in the rules channel and not the announcements cause you know channel topocs and all. Announcement for a rule would be like "check out the new rules regarding channels" not the rule itself. But who cares if no one reviews the old ass announcements it was a rule cause you said it but actually didnt specify it was a rule....
There is an end to this.... RULES ARE WRITTEN STATEMENTS TO BE FOLLOWED THAT ARE WRITTEN IN THE RULES CHANNEL FOR EVERYONE TO SEE.
That is how i see rules, that is how everyone sees rules, that is how policy works everywhere!!! If you do not write it there, its not a rule its a suggestion but you didnt see it that way because....i have no idea to your insights on this. Point blank and simple everything you been saying leads back to announcements not back to the rules...the only thing in the rules is punishment of breaking the announcement suggestion.
As far DMs go I do not believe my memory is wrong, as messages can be deleted and changed much like how the announcement was changed to include the channel ping which originally when I was muted had not been there. So I dont really believe your screenshot, and on another note its not like its anything bad cause regardless it is your job as admin to threaten what you percieve to be toxic with bans. As my memory recalls the time within our convo, I remember standing on the corner of Park Ave and 61st street waiting for my uber while still listening to the music N0xiety was playing in the music chat at the time, and i remember reading right after you said that trolling comment you said if i repeat my actions i will be banned. Again I dont believe my memory is false since i remember so much detail about that convo specifically and yet nothing else about the day except that moment which is too strong to be a false memory for me.
It doesnt even matter cause like i said Im not a liar and im not twisting anything since me saying that was in response to tugster saying there were no admins, and what do admins do? Threaten to ban, make the rules, threaten to mute etc! So it is not a twisted fact to make anyone look bad it is just the nature of the job.
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Saint you say that and yet millman is the one who responded to this as well.
You say that but you also respond to this as well.
This thread only keeps going because of you all asking, and then falsely accusing . And then i end up repeating the same thing which i already said that the purpose of it was to voice out what i could not in the discord channel because i would be banned.
What millman is talking about could definitely be talked about privately but the thing is we already did and i told you what he said in the first post and he says here the same shit he said there but this time he is trying to make it seem like i am a liar and discredit what i say. Then I want to respond again to clear up his misunderstanding.
You dont have to read this thread sir, no one forced you to click it. I have said my piece and now i am just responding to whatever others have to say. Just like i am now, i see your opinion bud you dont think we should continue this thread, you think if i walk away this thread will stop? I said nothing for over 12 hours it didnt stop this thread. So bruh....what is your reason for continuing to post here?
Flaffy The rule is written in the rules channel, and I have never threatened to ban anyone through DMs.
You literally said I'm sending people DMs threatening to ban them. That is a lie.
Man just as someone who was joking around with billdor myself yesterday. I don't know the full story since flaffy also had a similar post months back which I've forgotten about. But damn man I'm not gonna play the Saint but calling someone a whore for no reason? And everyone else chipping in as well? Grow up mates is all i got to say after this one.
Millman97 Again i say as my memory serves me you did. Polygraph me, I have no doubts!
You say what you say, i say what i say and again through your loophole just like the last time you like to make it seem like i am not truthful. Now I really am beginning to question your integrity...I didnt before but now I really wonder.
I am done talking to you millman you seem to be a derivative of Neverfire I will just block you and we never talk again. I hope that should i be pinged again and see more of the same nonsense as i did this time you will look to your rules and follow the proper ways of a mod, as you have done before. But who knows maybe you will take 24 hours next time.
I am not going to respond to this thread anymore since i believe i have answered all possible questions and users should refer to previous posts for any further comments.
Man----, this thread is getting ridiculous.
I mean there are channels on discord for a reason.
Every average person (like all of us on discord) use the channels for what they are created. And we do that without even reading the rules. There are even servers without that rule and people still followed that.
And this here:
Flaffy As far DMs go I do not believe my memory is wrong, as messages can be deleted and changed
Flaffy Again I dont believe my memory is false since i remember so much detail about that convo specifically and yet nothing else about the day except that moment which is too strong to be a false memory for me.
If you say that mill lied with the DMs, then give us the real screenshots from your chat and prove it. Who will believe you by just saying that you can remember things.
I mean I remember things too: I ate unicorn-meat yesterday for dinner: juicy, soft, and full of flavor. Spices exploded in my mouth at every bite. The crispy crust cracked under every bite and sweet juices filled my mouth; even some drool.
See: I can remember everything from it. But does that mean it was really a unicorn and not a horse?!
I belive facts, screenshots, and reliable sources. Not some words.
Honestly who cares. The discord is a cyverbully blah blah blah. Just leave it then. Block the pings. A random sketchy Chinese company's discord doesn't have anything to do with your life. Move on and everyone will be better off.
BaiSiwa damn.. is it because ur novel tht u jst came out with have plenty of votes that people are hating? I actually feel sorry for everyone that goes through all of this.. having a disagreement with someone is good and it invites conversation and exchange of ideas.. but just to blatantly hate/dislike someone for no apparent reason is just jealousy.. If they're hating because ur novel is doing much better than theirs then really you just have to be a better person... keep releasing chapters and keep getting votes, let them waste their energy hating
LowerTierDragon now you're just being a dick