Cilliez Thats not what I mean, I'm not shy at all, I just don't like people. Especially in groups, often times people in a group will not be like the person they are themselves because of other people in the group which is confusing to me but hey that's human nature i guess.
I mean reserved from people. I only have 3 friends, and even they I talk to maybe once every 2 weeks and go out once every 6 moths. If I liked someone they would get far more attention than that, not talking everyday because that is annoying to me but at least every 3 days or so and going out every 2 weeks maybe.
I am very good social person I just know the limits of my relationship with other people. I am a very picky and finicky person, I also scare easily due to being an overthinker so I like to make those limits known to other people by giving them less of my attention before I afford them a chance to ruin my cordial human respect for them(gotta be sure they really want some of this). I speak when spoken to but you can pretty much tell when I'm not interested. Usually takes a year for me to call someone a friend. You can imagine how long it takes for me to actually really like someone, however for me it's usually based purely on attraction and not the physical type but just how a person talks, if they like fiction and how clean they look. Hygiene is the most important factor for me as I am a bit of an asexual, and anything unhygienic will ruin all my romance.