Luta I guess I always misunderstood it, I should suggest this to my girlfriend next time, im interested in the reaction :D

      It's just too confusing! So that's why example #1 was so flustered. Dangit

        Umm....so "warming one's bed" basically means that you wait in bed for the other person to come and have sex.........Usually the woman is the one "Warming the bed" and the man is supposed to come. But, sometimes they reverse this just to get a cute moment out because the man is willing to "serve" the woman......(serve meaning sex)

        We... People who addicted to books and novels... Unexpectedly have such a low EQ.

          I also got a 40 lol. Well I still I don't understand why people would give something really precious away. That makes me sound like a self-righteous virgin but I really mean it.

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            I got 120...
            Suddenly feeling like an alien.

              Its alright man. They're just picking on you because they've long left that wondrous land of childhood. I'm envious. :P

              One man's trash is another man's treasure, DaiskeValliere. Conversely, one man's treasure is another man's trash.

              You value your virginity because it has worth to you. So you hold on to it. To someone else, they may want to get rid of it as fast as possible. It could be that boy may wish to be considered as a man in his community. To do that, he must do something that adults do, or have something that adults already have. It could be from smoking like his elders, or banging some girls away. So he does it, because that's his right of passage into adulthood. The more desperately he wants to be seen like an adult among his peers, the faster he'll want to be rid of it. This is just like little kids wanting to stop drinking milk because they see it as "only babies drink milk" (very prevalent in my culture).

              A girl may give her virginity away because she's in love with someone else. She wants to give what she values the
              most to her most precious person. So she gives it away.

              Or they may not even see the value in it at all. When you're desperate for your next hit (of drugs), suffering through withdrawals and need that next dose, you won't see the value in your virginity. If cutting off one of your fingers can get you out of that withdrawal, you might even do it.

              Or they may not even have a say in holding onto it, and have it forcibly taken from them. No matter how precious it is, and no matter how much they want to keep it, they won't be able to retain it.

              I hope this gives you a small insight into the world of... humans. There will always be a reason, no matter how insane that reason is.

                I remember reading books and I went stir crazy the first time I read a passage that goes something like this

                "...and you can almost feel her luscious curves that wrap around her dress"

                That was 10+ years ago. Skip ahead 2 years and I started dropping books whenever there was a kissing scene. I still remember telling myself that that scene ruined the book for me. Best part is that it wasn't even that graphic. Just a "simple" french kiss.

                Nowadays, I can't wait and yell at the characters to kiss already. I want my innocence back.

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