Why you shouldn't be mad at the author for not interacting with you.
Tomoyuki OMG. Did you just delete all your reviews to get your rating down to 2.3 ?
How come you have 12 reviews now? Are you mad?????
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whoknowwhat What are you talking about? I always had a rating of 2.3 and only 12 reviews. Nothing changed at all.
Sighgray It is truly what I think of myself. I have often been told by readers and friends that I don't deserve to live and I should just kill myself because I'm such a failure. They are correct. I have done absolutely nothing in my life that I can be proud of, I have not achieved anything I can confidently call a "success," and I recognize that I am a worthless human being who is a waste of space and resources. Ghosty and all the other writers are right. I am nothing but a shame on all the other authors here, and should just rid the world of me before I make even more people such as Snowin or ShaneM25 angry.
The only reason why I haven't killed myself yet is because of my family, but I'm starting to reconsider because I have been nothing but a financial and emotional burden to them throughout my entire life.
Tomoyuki don't give up
The_Procrastinator I will do my best.
Tomoyuki im not angry. Its just annoying and uncomfortable to see you always post the same things. If you truly feel this way, webnovel's forum isn't the place for you to tell yourself you're a failure. Talk with your friends and family. Talk with people that are close to you. You need a mindset change, and a goal to accomplish.
Obviously, its easier said than done but constantly telling yourself about your failures is worthless. You need a positive mindset; start by complimenting your success's and throw away the failures.
Im not an expert, so its just some words of advice. Hope that helps, Good luck.
whoknowwhat wow... i just noticed that...
Tomoyuki I am willing to talk to you and I don't ask you to kill yourself. So listen to me.
LostInFictions Yeah, I should be listening to you. How are you doing?
Tomoyuki Dealing with my awful stomach issues. Sobs.
Wow, I'm happy that this thread of mine has become such a healthy place of discussion. Thank you so much, everyone, for participating in the thread~~~
LostInFictions Please take care of yourself!
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Snowin It is indeed pathetic. However, before you nag at him, you should first look at it from another perspective. Picture in your mind an ambitious writer trying to make a name for himself. He would reply to every comment, review, and would communicate with his readers. One day, he received a negative comment. 'It's normal to receive a negative comment.' He thought. However, a time came where he only received negative comments. 'This isn't normal anymore... Is my book... really that bad?' He thought. As the negative comments increased, he slowly started to believe the comments to be true. It's a psychological effect that happens when the more you are exposed to something, the more you believe it to be true. Thereafter, he started to believe that his book is bad. It doesn't matter if someone complimented his book as he would almost always regard that compliment to be false, that someone only complimented him to cheer him up.
I don't know if that is what Tomoyuki really experienced, but I myself could relate to what he's been going through (In fact, what I wrote above was my own experience).
In conclusion: Repeated exposure to negative comments could lead to an author to think that his work that he tirelssly created day and night, is nothing but utter garbage.
Maybe... the reason why Tomoyuki is always ranting in the forums is because he thought that if he did, he might see someone that has a similar experience to him as well. This is a forum for writers, and he thought that he has much higher chances of meeting a kindred spirit if he ranted in it.
But hey, that's just theory. A film theory!
(Sorry for the long post.)
Katie_Torres_3147 It's great that you, as an author, are ready to communicate with readers!
I am an author, reader, reviewer. Honest reviews are written to me, thanks to them, I can improve my writing, novels become more interesting. Therefore, I welcome the honest dialogue between the author and the reader.
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Tomoyuki My friends have advised me to kill myself
You do realize that anyone advising you to kill yourself is not your friend?
I read similar comments like this from you since I'm on this forum. At first, like many others I gave you some good advices, but self-pity like yours will lead you nowhere. At this point, I think you need help, maybe a therapy if you're not trolling here.
Even if every comment/review was negative, you could still take the constructive criticism part of it and ponder over what makes them react like this. Because I have seen garbage novels here with bad grammar being popular, and everyone (if you're not retarded and since you can write on this forum, you're not) improves over time if you really put the effort.