Neverfire7 1) Form your own harem
I don't want my own harem, the parents would kill me...
Neverfire7 Oh? Not worthy in what way(s)?
They are all jerks!!! T_T
AND they stole my beloved chocolate...
Cilliez
Thank you for your advice :3
The thing that worried me the most, has always been destroying friend A & Bs friendship because I choose one.
How did this thread about girls suddenly turn into sex and then dates....wow.
Neverfire7 Just to let you know you do not have to waste time, it is better to find a partner who enjoys the same things you do, that way it is not a waste of time, One of my ex-boyfriends was an anime fan we watched anime on 90% of our dates until it got weird and I was like, "you cannot like this anime that is disgusting, you're fantasy will never be reality, I think we should see other people". Though the dates were never a waste of time for me cause I got a lot of anime watching done.
Olivia Listen to me. I know what it's like to be surrounded by hound dogs who aren't worth a glance but yet they think "Oh we have been friends so long, let's make this a childhood friend story" No let's not. I'm very short and sweet, put em down easy? No such thing in my book, if it's too easy they start to think you're easy. Be firm, NO. Be Clear, NO. Be Assertive, Do not touch me or so help me god, I said NO! This is a special technique that is needed especially with friends who get too touchy feely. Even friends can get the wrong message at times and assume something that isn't true because some guys just don't pick up on the friend zone or even believe it's there. Better safe than sorry.
If you're asking how to choose that is your own swirly cinnabon of feelings you need to check with. And you still have to be firm, clear and assertive to the guy you don't choose, do not make the other guy do it cause then you might really lose that friend, if you care.
Cilliez Wow, the wisdom of an old person shows up!
Cilliez Maybe one guy just likes you cause you're attractive
I've had that a lot with the women... Truly a pain!
Olivia They are all jerks!!! T_T
AND they stole my beloved chocolate...
Aww, don't worry junior! I always keep a fresh supply of white chocolate; the type you love :) This senior will gladly sacrifice his (white) chocolate for the happiness of his dearest junior! (How valiant I am...)
Flaffy Women... are very scary, I discover... But you're right!
I first realized girls didn't have a penis when I was 10 and my female cousin and me were curious.
Luta That's... Um... Right... I first learned it at 8 when the boys and girls were having a 'diss' competition on the playground...
'You have a tube thing!'
'Yours is cut off!'
that same cousin kissed me that day but I punched her because I found it gross back then.
Luta 'back then'... Which means now you wouldn't mind kissing your cousin? Tsk tsk... But fear not, friend, you can marry her in some places...
Look at the dark blue places... That's where you're safe
one of those dark blue places is where I live.
WOOOT 200th post!! I'm on a roll!
Hey hey.. 
Honesty, what story are ya tallon about girl 
Anyway hello everyone, can anyone recommend me anything that any stories that fun to read???
Neverfire7 I dont understand what are the orangey red colorful places? And what are the grey places?
SilverLightTwin Fun to read? Give me more info, you looking for funnies like "ahaha!!! that joke was funny"? or like "hehehe he totally set them up, thats funny"?
if you just mean interesting to read then check out this thread:
https://forum.webnovel.com/d/1116-what-is-the-novels-you-have-read-recently/
Where many people post their daily reads(When i say many i mean a couple but yeah.) sure you will find something good there.
Luta Same... I thought the UK banned first-cousin marriage... Guess not...
Neverfire7 oh.
Neverfire7 Why would they, they have been f'king each other for generations why stop now?
Friendships get "destroyed" easily... if you're young and in school, don't expect them to last... they won't. Unless you like try super hard, then they might. And unless they like you a lot and wanna keep the hope that you'll marry them one day, then they might.
Anyways, on the ...
Olivia The thing that worried me the most, has always been destroying friend A & Bs friendship because I choose one.
What will destroy the relationships within your friends is you not deciding... You should be open and clear about your feelings... (realizing my sister will probably be placed in this same situation when she's older so I'll have to copy and paste my argument in like 4-5 years) But let me be clear what I mean about deciding..
I do not mean picking between your friends on who you will date based on their feelings. Which by the way is very selfish of them to put you through that!
I mean deciding whether you even want to be part of the situation in general. Deciding between telling them both to leave it, and telling them that you aren't ready for any of that. Or deciding that you can do it.
By the way, you should talk to them both and ask them how they would feel if they weren't chosen, to understand better. And you should talk to them and explain why you might not pick either, whether you decide to pick one or not because you don't want to leave them asking themselves questions like why they're not good enough.
But I agree with @Flaffy with letting them down with a flat NO if you will tell them no. If you don't care for either or, you should make sure they know that. Sit down and talk to them, 1 on 1, and tell them that you don't have feelings for them like that, and that nothing (possibly) will change that.
If you don't see yourself saying that nothing will change it, perhaps cause you enjoy their friendship and the ability of dating either or as you get older could come up within time if you feel it so, then you should tell them that specifically with the absolute determination that at this time it will not happen.
Most of all, make sure the outcome is something that doesn't leave you asking yourself "was this okay?" "will they be fine?" Make sure you talk to them through it, so that they don't leave the situation feeling like they've lost.
Even though they probably have.
Cilliez As a guy, I'd rather be told that I wasn't liked in that way than be with them because they felt they had to choose
Also, while I would have liked to say that if you can't decide you could always just do the cool... threesome way... but that's just unhealthy... most of the time the two guys/two girls/whatever will get jealous of each other and will want to monopolize you even though you're supposed to be in a equal three-way relationship. Which is what I mean by unhealthy, cause it normally doesn't work.
Exactly. But the thing is that the heart changes a lot, so you could hate someone for like 3 years, then slowly start to see them in a new light and suddenly BAM love! So if someone doesn't like you at first, and then slowly does, it becomes alright. But yes, choosing just for the sake of choice is just wrong.
But if she were to choose friend A and then start to like him after the fact, then it could be excused. Although he'd always feel upset that he was chosen just randomly... it would cause fear to be rooted in place and he'd always be nervous that you'd do the same again.
