Ohhhh, so I thought this kind of nonsensical and farfetched stuff only exist in romance novels targeted at female audience, where most of the guys are studs, loaded with money, who are also geniuses whose only downside is having a low EQ (basically a more sophisticated way to describe a jerk). And most of the female characters, except the FL of course, are sluts and bitches that need to be put in their place. Oh and of course being sexually forced by a handsome guy is a one night stand, but heaven forbid it was an ugly dude, then it was a rape.
I've never read any xianxia novels, but so it looks like they are also written, in a way, to satisfy most male readers' twisted fantasy just as the romance genre is, to most female readers'.