Flaffy

Hello, Flaffy.

As someone who has been a target for bullies for the past week, I know very well how you feel. I believe in your cause, and that all cyberbully should be wiped off the face of this planet.

Here are a few instances of people using verbal abuse on me.











As you can see, there are over 100 different instances where many nasty individuals are calling me 'Shameless' for no apparent reason.

To hear so many insults despite showing kindness and love to them, I was heart-broken, shattered, depressed. I was even on verge of killing myself. However, you have to remember that there will always be people out there who will be there for you, such as this nice lady, who although sometimes join in on the bully, helps me from the shadows.

I can also see that you have yet to stabilize your Dao Heart. You need to spend more time cultivating, so I will introduce you to a few secret Cultivation Techniques called, 'League of Legends,' 'Counter-Strike: Global Offensive,' and 'Twitter'.

Do not give up. Stay Strong. Keep loving yourself. And most importantly, ignore the bullies.

      BaiSiwa Had you told them to stop? That you did not like it? That you thought those things were not funny?

      And had you attempted to get the mod to do something about it? Did they ignore you really? I know that happened to me and that is what annoys me the most. Not the cyberbullying itself, the fact that I told pinged a mod and told a mod before about the behavior of that person and they shrugged it off and did nothing. If someone is seeking to hurt you with their words, it is AGAINST THE RULES PUT IN THE SERVER.

      Courtesy is but prioritized at all times, thus speak kindly as thou shalt not hurt with thy words.

      I was muted when I first came to the server because of that rule, and despite that no one else was, when I was just reacting. It's never ok to bully, but if the server is allowing it, they should be more clear on their rules, and the enforcement of them. Not just ONE but them ALL.

      No one should have to ignore and be forced to turn the other cheek when they are being chased down, I would rather break out the machete and the kill the fuck but only WE are chained by the rules that should have prevented the chase to begin with.

          Saint beautiful and manificent cat should stay away from using the word fluffy, flurry, furry, and or any of its derivatives.
          These words traumatize me.
          :fearful: :scream:

              Miya That was something I thought was common sense, but it seems to be in their nature to have such idiocy.

                  Storm6666 Look at that, the corruption of it all. I had an editor tell me once before in DM that they were not mod and I shouldn't talk to them about the stuff but to millman. I guess you know they want nothing to do with the stuff cause it gets sticky when they are your friends and they probs have some other work to do too. SMH

                    Supreme_Idler one of the implicit rules of our sect is that we share our popcorn :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn:

                    Flaffy Billdoor calling me names is not new, I have asked repeatedly for him to stop, I blocked him, I blocked his accomplice Neverfire long ago.

                    if you block the both of them, you shouldn't be able to read their messages. but from the screenshots, it looked like you unblock the both of them.

                    Flaffy Though I thought Qidian wanted to have a healthy environment?

                    no one claims qidian is a healthy environment. they might try to make it one, but how to ensure inclusivity and nondiscriminatory comments and still allow for the expression of personal opinions.

                            Flaffy We're not told anything about it, I think we're more of a last resort type of mod, not the one actively enforcing the rules. Rather, when bots spamming messages appear in the chat we can ban them.

                              Miya no from my screenshot I viewed the blocked message, because as I said, the convo was about me. Saint is not blocked and neither was phoenix both of which asked him a question saint making it clear it was about me. I viewed the blocked messages to see what and why exactly i was being discussed. I did not suspect it would be anything like that, I thought it was just a simple haven't seen her ina while kind of convo, only for it to be revealed as something rude.

                              Naught canst be achieved without terms and rules. The alliance treaty twixt us sees thee stay soothfast to two terms. Whosoever violates either of the two shall be warned for the first offense, kept silent for the second, and repudiated alliance for the third.

                              1. Courtesy is but prioritized at all times, thus speak kindly as thou shalt not hurt with thy words. The world maketh all brothers and sisters; should there be discontentment today, thou shalt meet thereon and forego resentment with a smile. Dear users, please get along with each other.
                              2. Thou shalt never spread influence of the evil, advertisements, and objects of obscenity to the requiescence of our alliance. Spam and mature content are forbidden.

                              Those seem like rules to promote healthy server environment. In the discord server, it clearly states that and since millman did not change the rules I suspect they will still be enforced, thus making it seem like it wanted a healthy environment. So my statement of thoughts assumptions are clear and justified.

                                Flaffy Flaffy chan, as someone that is not involved with all this problem, and just now read your reply to BaiSiwa post, i have to say, dont be sad and try to not get all heated in this, after all, if they from the start didnt think af being nice and not toxic, is even worth it to put all of that in their faces? Do they even care? Is that worth your time? I support your cause, hope you dont feel depresed and can continue to do what you love.

                                And Baisiwa, I feel really sad of your problem, Bulling something that should not even exist, so i will tell you what my mother, in my younger days, used to tell me, If they hit you son, kill them Hope it gets all better for you.

                                Sincerely and with love, Mr.Rabbit.

                                    MrRabbit I am not sad, nor depressed, thanks for your concern. As I said it is not their actions that upset me, but the powerlessness I feel to be able to say something in response to it that will take this weight off of me.

                                    In a real life convo when someone calls you a whore, you make up some shit as well "yeah well i heard you sucked so and so's dick, come talk to me when you get the cum off your face" which may or may not cause an argument, to which i would gladly participate to be more at ease, but in this server i had personally experienced that you get muted and warned and banned and the rules were pointed out to me.

                                    This biasness is not fair to me and that pisses me off more so than the actual insult. The fact that someone like Miya, who was once neutral, will laugh and joke with this person and then when he does shit like this they will tell me to let it go, to me its baffling to see that bias association continue to take hold. People sit back and watch him do the stuff they say nothing, if I say something, you see what I get? laughs, popcorn and let it gos. Who will tell him to let it go? When do I get the chance to retaliate and respond and say nasty things about him and spread lies and rumors about his intelligence and what little sex he can get?

                                    All I can do to vent my rage is this little bit on the forums, with the hope that this message reaches those and warns them of what kind of environment the discord server is. I have been in many discord servers, and most don't allow toxic things like that to persist as long as this has, and its probably only because they let him, which brings me back to the bias i feel.

                                    To clarify once more, I have never once been saddened or depressed by this. I reach out for the irritation of not being able to confront the monster because of bias rules that will only apply to me.

                                        Another thing I need to address since it is obviously being misconstrued yet again.

                                        @Lonelytree brought up a point in discord, saying that its not like I don't know I'm not welcome. Its actually that i know I'm not welcome by you and the people of your sect.

                                        And if this guy actually cared not to spread rumors with neverfire he would know, that I was not even active for over 2 weeks on the server at all 3 weeks I was not even active in chats. This inactivity solely due to the previous act of biasness where I was muted for not discussing topics (colors of roles) in the proper channels. And before the revamp of the server I was not even that active in the chats anymore I was mostly in other channels popping in and out, barely noticeable!

                                        No lonelytree did not take it upon himself to learn that info they didn't care probs and just wanted to spread info, just like I am now with this sentence.

                                        he also made a comment that he doesn't think anyone is breaking the rules, might I add I saw plenty of sect discussion going on, is that not part of the server, are discussing matters of the server not reserved for the server suggestions discussion channel is that not what I was muted for previously? If that wasn't what I was muted for Millman needs to reaffirm his DM cause that's definitely what he said.

                                        So you don't like that i point out the truth and present it in a way which you cannot deny is the truth, so instead you will say everything is fine and that I am ranting and raving cause i wanna start something.... I wanna start something? But who is it who pinged me? Better find the phantom! Heard a rumor it was phoenix, but you know what forget the ping, who was talking about flaffy? Oh right your clansmen! You are so funny man, I'm looking for it and they are what victims of my blow up? Then why the hell would they even start talking about me so randomly!??!?!?!

                                        @_ain@ Fellow Forum pplz, the bullshit and rumors are real. Which is why I constantly feel like the cancer continues to spread. Do I even know this guy lonelytree? I dont even remember having a convo with him before, but yet he knows so much about what i want to do....

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