FatedBlade There are no mods... literally 0. Flaffy says millman is a mod, but he isn't even a mod. He only does some bot stuff. It's dumb how there are no mods in such a big server. >.<
NO ONE IS SAFE: From the cyberbully that runs rampart in Qidian Discord
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Hello, Flaffy.
As someone who has been a target for bullies for the past week, I know very well how you feel. I believe in your cause, and that all cyberbully should be wiped off the face of this planet.
Here are a few instances of people using verbal abuse on me.
As you can see, there are over 100 different instances where many nasty individuals are calling me 'Shameless' for no apparent reason.
To hear so many insults despite showing kindness and love to them, I was heart-broken, shattered, depressed. I was even on verge of killing myself. However, you have to remember that there will always be people out there who will be there for you, such as this nice lady, who although sometimes join in on the bully, helps me from the shadows.
I can also see that you have yet to stabilize your Dao Heart. You need to spend more time cultivating, so I will introduce you to a few secret Cultivation Techniques called, 'League of Legends,' 'Counter-Strike: Global Offensive,' and 'Twitter'.
Do not give up. Stay Strong. Keep loving yourself. And most importantly, ignore the bullies.
BaiSiwa SHAMELESS
BaiSiwa He digged deep to find those messages.
Deeper than his shamelessness.
And that is already deep. hella deep.
SHAMELESS
BaiSiwa Had you told them to stop? That you did not like it? That you thought those things were not funny?
And had you attempted to get the mod to do something about it? Did they ignore you really? I know that happened to me and that is what annoys me the most. Not the cyberbullying itself, the fact that I told pinged a mod and told a mod before about the behavior of that person and they shrugged it off and did nothing. If someone is seeking to hurt you with their words, it is AGAINST THE RULES PUT IN THE SERVER.
Courtesy is but prioritized at all times, thus speak kindly as thou shalt not hurt with thy words.
I was muted when I first came to the server because of that rule, and despite that no one else was, when I was just reacting. It's never ok to bully, but if the server is allowing it, they should be more clear on their rules, and the enforcement of them. Not just ONE but them ALL.
No one should have to ignore and be forced to turn the other cheek when they are being chased down, I would rather break out the machete and the kill the fuck but only WE are chained by the rules that should have prevented the chase to begin with.
Note that all editors and translators have moderation permissions.
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Storm6666 Look at that, the corruption of it all. I had an editor tell me once before in DM that they were not mod and I shouldn't talk to them about the stuff but to millman. I guess you know they want nothing to do with the stuff cause it gets sticky when they are your friends and they probs have some other work to do too. SMH
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Supreme_Idler one of the implicit rules of our sect is that we share our popcorn :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn:
Flaffy Billdoor calling me names is not new, I have asked repeatedly for him to stop, I blocked him, I blocked his accomplice Neverfire long ago.
if you block the both of them, you shouldn't be able to read their messages. but from the screenshots, it looked like you unblock the both of them.
Flaffy Though I thought Qidian wanted to have a healthy environment?
no one claims qidian is a healthy environment. they might try to make it one, but how to ensure inclusivity and nondiscriminatory comments and still allow for the expression of personal opinions.
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Miya no from my screenshot I viewed the blocked message, because as I said, the convo was about me. Saint is not blocked and neither was phoenix both of which asked him a question saint making it clear it was about me. I viewed the blocked messages to see what and why exactly i was being discussed. I did not suspect it would be anything like that, I thought it was just a simple haven't seen her ina while kind of convo, only for it to be revealed as something rude.
Naught canst be achieved without terms and rules. The alliance treaty twixt us sees thee stay soothfast to two terms. Whosoever violates either of the two shall be warned for the first offense, kept silent for the second, and repudiated alliance for the third.
- Courtesy is but prioritized at all times, thus speak kindly as thou shalt not hurt with thy words. The world maketh all brothers and sisters; should there be discontentment today, thou shalt meet thereon and forego resentment with a smile. Dear users, please get along with each other.
- Thou shalt never spread influence of the evil, advertisements, and objects of obscenity to the requiescence of our alliance. Spam and mature content are forbidden.
Those seem like rules to promote healthy server environment. In the discord server, it clearly states that and since millman did not change the rules I suspect they will still be enforced, thus making it seem like it wanted a healthy environment. So my statement of thoughts assumptions are clear and justified.
Flaffy Flaffy chan, as someone that is not involved with all this problem, and just now read your reply to BaiSiwa post, i have to say, dont be sad and try to not get all heated in this, after all, if they from the start didnt think af being nice and not toxic, is even worth it to put all of that in their faces? Do they even care? Is that worth your time? I support your cause, hope you dont feel depresed and can continue to do what you love.
And Baisiwa, I feel really sad of your problem, Bulling something that should not even exist, so i will tell you what my mother, in my younger days, used to tell me, If they hit you son, kill them Hope it gets all better for you.
Sincerely and with love, Mr.Rabbit.
MrRabbit I am not sad, nor depressed, thanks for your concern. As I said it is not their actions that upset me, but the powerlessness I feel to be able to say something in response to it that will take this weight off of me.
In a real life convo when someone calls you a whore, you make up some shit as well "yeah well i heard you sucked so and so's dick, come talk to me when you get the cum off your face" which may or may not cause an argument, to which i would gladly participate to be more at ease, but in this server i had personally experienced that you get muted and warned and banned and the rules were pointed out to me.
This biasness is not fair to me and that pisses me off more so than the actual insult. The fact that someone like Miya, who was once neutral, will laugh and joke with this person and then when he does shit like this they will tell me to let it go, to me its baffling to see that bias association continue to take hold. People sit back and watch him do the stuff they say nothing, if I say something, you see what I get? laughs, popcorn and let it gos. Who will tell him to let it go? When do I get the chance to retaliate and respond and say nasty things about him and spread lies and rumors about his intelligence and what little sex he can get?
All I can do to vent my rage is this little bit on the forums, with the hope that this message reaches those and warns them of what kind of environment the discord server is. I have been in many discord servers, and most don't allow toxic things like that to persist as long as this has, and its probably only because they let him, which brings me back to the bias i feel.
To clarify once more, I have never once been saddened or depressed by this. I reach out for the irritation of not being able to confront the monster because of bias rules that will only apply to me.
oh man, why can't we all get along.
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Another thing I need to address since it is obviously being misconstrued yet again.
@Lonelytree brought up a point in discord, saying that its not like I don't know I'm not welcome. Its actually that i know I'm not welcome by you and the people of your sect.
And if this guy actually cared not to spread rumors with neverfire he would know, that I was not even active for over 2 weeks on the server at all 3 weeks I was not even active in chats. This inactivity solely due to the previous act of biasness where I was muted for not discussing topics (colors of roles) in the proper channels. And before the revamp of the server I was not even that active in the chats anymore I was mostly in other channels popping in and out, barely noticeable!
No lonelytree did not take it upon himself to learn that info they didn't care probs and just wanted to spread info, just like I am now with this sentence.
he also made a comment that he doesn't think anyone is breaking the rules, might I add I saw plenty of sect discussion going on, is that not part of the server, are discussing matters of the server not reserved for the server suggestions discussion channel is that not what I was muted for previously? If that wasn't what I was muted for Millman needs to reaffirm his DM cause that's definitely what he said.
So you don't like that i point out the truth and present it in a way which you cannot deny is the truth, so instead you will say everything is fine and that I am ranting and raving cause i wanna start something.... I wanna start something? But who is it who pinged me? Better find the phantom! Heard a rumor it was phoenix, but you know what forget the ping, who was talking about flaffy? Oh right your clansmen! You are so funny man, I'm looking for it and they are what victims of my blow up? Then why the hell would they even start talking about me so randomly!??!?!?!
@_ain@ Fellow Forum pplz, the bullshit and rumors are real. Which is why I constantly feel like the cancer continues to spread. Do I even know this guy lonelytree? I dont even remember having a convo with him before, but yet he knows so much about what i want to do....
Fluffy! Fighto! Ganbatte kudasai!
just to make it clear and not drag down other people, I got my ban little girly, hope you can now get really off on this aspect.People will applaud you, other will hate you.
But as a matter of fact, you are and will still be a little ***** Crave for attention here as much as you like,
argue with people to your heart's content and at the end of the day, you will still be a little #####.
For the people on the discord i really hope you will never show your face, as 'interesting' as this might be, you stir emotion up in people that are neither love nor hate, its more like annoyance or disgust.
Cheers out my little *****, have fun
Billdoor If people have those feelings they should speak them out. I think i had a place for those feelings to be placed, let me seee.....
https://forum.webnovel.com/d/3566-flaffy-is-gay/16
If the people in discord cannot speak their minds, it is not on my part as I previously said before I cannot help with something that was not brought to my attention. If they choose to ignore their feelings and just ignore me that is fine, I wasn't even that active for them to care anyways. If they have a problem they should speak up and be more clear, cause I have yet to receive a DM from anyone.
i want to know why the server admin not baning them
they using Qidian the cyberbully and if qidian let them keep do it its just sad and someone need to get fired
and honestly there alot of shitty people in the world and you need to learn to ignore them
i dont think you using discord qidian server to talk with them right ? so talk the pepole you want and ignore the bullys.
and why you care what they say when you know they just board and waiting to someone to respond to them
they want the attention become the unsuccessful in thier life and need someone to make fun of .
so ignore them and dont care about what they say let the little kid fight with there self
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DaoistTwistLove read previous posts. I answer all that you asked. The problem is its cancer, he says something and monkey see monkey do everyone repeats and follows.
For example as i saidbefore barely remember even speaking to lonelytree before but he seems to spread out in discord about what i know and what i want without any of my say so, without the facts thus the rumors from a translator becomes fact on some ears, my very point in my very first discord post.
When I complain of the things done before no one had done anything and the only thing i was allowed to do is post on forums because if i post in discord they would say im arguing and use that excuse to ban me unjustly, so i posted this. And now he is banned.
Wow, there is nothing wrong with a little teasing but you guys just seem pathetic.
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Kymani little teasing is different from directly seeking to be nasty to someone. Its like if because of this misunderstood post you just made i will follow you on forums saying "kymani is a hoe bag" everytime you post something and random people join in to ridicule whatever they feel like, and then when you dont respond for a while someone pings you and i continue to find words to talk bad about you.
But wait there is more!!!
You tell me to stop but i say for you to "put on your big boy boxers!!" " stop being a twat!!"
But wait theres more!!! You ignore me but then someone else brings you up again and you see your name and a blocked message then the person laughs. And it continues like this for days....a little teasing is not like that. And im not even your friend, family or anyone important to you, what can you think other than that i have something against you and want to annoy you. And should you tease back you will run the risk of being banned.
As said previously with the rules put forth in the discord it says contrary to those kinds of actions should that change then you wont hear from me. And i would like to point out the aggressor has never said he was teasing, and that is hecause he was not...he was insulting which he has admitted on more than one occasion.
What BIG and STRONG men I bet they get all the chicks
This is silly. I am sitting here reading a debate that can be summed up like this: We have a child being a bully with a few suppoerts on one side. And we have a woman who is on a really bad justice crusade on the other. Is what the "bullies" doing nice ? no. Should it happend ? no. Should this have been plastered over here beyond asking Mods to enforce rules ? Hell no. People will be childish, give them attention while being childish just reinforces the behavior. I dont disagree with you overall Flaffy ? But your making the whole thing just worse with the WAY you go about this here, Ignore the idiots problem solved. Cant do that ? im sorry but you shouldent be on the internett.
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Zhevons Your entitled to your opinion, as i said before i post here in irritarion at not being able to say what i want in response. Like i said in real life i would have it out with the person, we would exchange words and i would feel better having said my shitty things right back.
If i had done so in discord i would be banned and they would not be. That fact is what seriously irritated me more and since i had brought it up before i felt this was the only other place to get my peace of mind that at least i didnt sit there like a dog and take shit.
In my opinion if i had ignored like before that wouldnt put an end to it and really wouldnt make me feel any better. You all are acting like this is the first time like this is something new, i could understand you saying that if i posted stuff every single time but i didn't, this was my last straw and my outrage at the people who allowed it.
Flaffy I understand your thoughts. But bullies does not function like that. Most bullies are pathetic in real life. Having troubles with aggression, home situation and much more. Its why I say to ingore them, because what they want above all is attention. A way to release their frustrations on others to feel better themselves. And the net is filled to the brim with people like this. Why do you think there is so many trolls around ?
Should you be able to voice your thoughts on topics like this ? Yes, I dont say differently either. But your not going to make things stop by naming the guy, your giving him attention. Should have attacked the generation situation as a whole without bringing in names, because if Quidan is serious about it they can go over discord logs themselves and find the cases. By plastering it up here, unrelated people like me now know who is involved etc. This ? Is not okay either. So truth be told you have the right to be irritated, but this wont change a damn thing unless mods themselves are willing to do something about it. And if getting it to stop is the goal ? That should have been the main focus, not posting the details about the guy.
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Zhevons i only posted his name and what he said. I didnt post any other details about the guy, actually dont think i know any other details about the guy. His name was posted because he is on the forums and has done the same insulting on the forums as he has done in discord, plus everyone would know who i am talking about and just like before they will say who is who so no point disguising it. As far as screenshots go i have prior experience where i was not believed because i didnt not have them because i was banned and had no access before.
I already know for the most part qidian does not care about the discord server at this time, if they cared as much they would have more mods than just the one. My annoyance was more with the people in the discord that allowed this to continue the people that join in and laugh those same people who would protect him should an argument arise. Those people allowed it, because literally all they have to say is " hey man that was not cool" "lets not talk about this" but they did not do that. They pinged there because they wanted that sort of thing. I am up for the challenge but someone is going down for the count imo.
As i said previously it was to warn users because i dont see much changing, vent my frustration and my last option.
So what is that you desire?
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NewCultivator hehe what are you Lucifer?
I wanted an explanation, would it be handled or are the mods hypocrites? Would he also be banned or are you mods as bias as i think?
He says he was banned, lets see what happens now, how long does that last will he continue his crusade after?
Does everyone now realize that im not to be bothered with continuous insults? Why poke the bear? Or will i be posting something like this again in a month?
We shall see, for now i feel wayy better and the aggressor got just desserts.
Been in many discord servers this is the first one i have seen such mentality where many people hide behind each other and empty lies. Only really stay in the server for the translation mistakes, the novel spoilers, and some novel hunts.
Flaffy Lol honestly wouldn’t affect me in the slightest . A bunch of idiots with no life sitting around a computer saying whatever they please affects me how??.
Then again we’ve all been raised in different environments so I can’t really pretend to understand how you feel or offer any advice when it comes to this.
1. I got a dig bick
2. You that read wrong
3. You read that wrong too
4. You checked
5. You smiled
7. You are wondering why you're still this reading this
8. You saw that mistake... right? (On 7)
10. But did you see that I skipped 6?
10. You checked
11. And saw you that I doubled 10 and skipped 9
12. I said saw you, not you saw
13. I also skipped 2
14. You got tricked
I'm just wasting your time go back to reading the comments