I have had many problems in the discord server, most attributed to name calling and biasness. Qidian has a habit of favoritism I get that, but after a certain point you would think they would have enough sense to notice that someone is clearly cancerous.

Such disease can be found in the Qidian discord under the name of Billdoor. Never have I experienced such harassment on the internet, normally if you aren't talking and you aren't there people will mind their own. I have never once sought him out, maybe once on forums there was banter that we had but I never once called out to him to insult him or even have convo with the guy.

Today 4/29/2018, I was not on the server as I had my last straw the last time biasness was perpetuated, you may have seen my post where it was clear the new mod of the server Millman had clearly shot himself in the foot as a silent rule he claimed was written was in fact not written at all, and I declared until ALL the rules were publicly displayed I would not be engaging in convo there as I know what happens in those chats and should a silent rule be broken according to him I would be banned.

Around 1:35 I got a ping to the discord server of qidian. I had muted it long ago suppressed everyone and here. So it could only be a direct ping. I go in to find no ping but a more toxic revelation.

https://imgur.com/COLTqmt
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https://imgur.com/A2bWsWR
https://imgur.com/hhxBGvr

I do not know what the intent behind this was, but you can see from my point of view calling someone a whore is subject to a negative reaction. People love to tell me "Flaffy yours so negative that is why we think you are aggressive" but this guy provokes negativity, breeds words of negativity and you allow him.

I did start this convo as you can see he is asking where I am, so I obviously was not part of the convo. I hadn't even been active on this forums so there was no need to talk about me at all. I can only assume this is a monstrous cyberbully that is being housed by the mod of the server, protected by the mod of the server. I have brought this same egging on to the attention of others around the cancer previously, they say ignore and why are you paying attention to it etc. Said by his best pal Pheonix himself "there is a such thing as ignoring" right, but when you are the only one in the convo or the subject of the convo how can you ignore a blocked message that is centered around yourself. How can you ignore the one talking about you when the others around him are also doing so?

I ask myself is it the entire server? What are these rules that they say should not be broken even for?

Naught canst be achieved without terms and rules. The alliance treaty twixt us sees thee stay soothfast to two terms. Whosoever violates either of the two shall be warned for the first offense, kept silent for the second, and repudiated alliance for the third.

  1. Courtesy is but prioritized at all times, thus speak kindly as thou shalt not hurt with thy words. The world maketh all brothers and sisters; should there be discontentment today, thou shalt meet thereon and forego resentment with a smile. Dear users, please get along with each other.
  2. Thou shalt never spread influence of the evil, advertisements, and objects of obscenity to the requiescence of our alliance. Spam and mature content are forbidden.

When the mod of the server is grouping himself with the same cyberbully and aggressor?

I will be muted for talking about colors of a goddamn role and the cancerous cyberbully lives in the server another day in the server to harass and provoke. People asked me, "why didn't you leave?" because even if I left it wouldn't be stopped would it? I had been inactive for over 3 weeks almost and this convo happened did it not?

I want it to STOP, I want someone close to the person or in charge of the server to put a stop to it. I have never once sought out this person, why do they feel the need to? Because that is what a cyberbully does!

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      Would also like to mentioned that the person who makes your FAQs thinks its okay to make a joke about a womans menstruation in response to a comment like "where is the whore".

      And would like to say that it is now confirmed Pheonix is also involved in the allowance of this cyberbullying as instead of convincing his friend to apologize he will instead laugh at my post as though it is not real. He cannot take his own advice it seems. Would aslo seem as I said previously the biasness is extremely real.

      I just looked at my previous forum post and it seems my claims are being downplayed as just complaining about a troll.

      My journals that I posted that, was complaining about a troll. This post and that one was complaining about the hypocrisy of the discord server. Rules are not being maintained, but when i break a silent rule I get muted and told I will be banned if I do it again. The question is how many more silent rules are there, and how many has my aggressor broken but still not been banned yet?

      Billdoor calling me names is not new, I have asked repeatedly for him to stop, I blocked him, I blocked his accomplice Neverfire long ago. When the server revamped he took it upon himself to harass me after i said "ded" in a secondary chat. I ignored it and I complained, I pinged the mod, and then i left those conversation channels. Many times I have ignored and this time I didn't even say ONE WORD in the chat and I was blasted, and a kid took it upon himself to throw in a very controversial joke about a womans menstruation. Now had it been something I said or even if I had said anything at the time to provoke the "joking" I might have said "ok I'm gonna go" but thats not what it was.

      It was like haven't seen the sheep, the whore, its her period. If we simplify like they do it actually becomes much worse. Discord server allows trolls and jokes like these and according to some thats okay because it is the internet. Though I thought Qidian wanted to have a healthy environment?

        Flaffy No, go join Bullyhunters and do like they did pls. Learn how to internet.

        We don't need people turning this into their safe space. I don't even use the discord, but I'll be the first one to say to you to put on your big girl panties and get over it.

            Kulha I got over the first 10-15 times. I'm not asking for a completely free space, I am asking for no harassment, can people not enjoy themselves unless it is at someone elses expense?

            Can I not go into the forums or discord and know that hey my opinion may be attacked but at least no one is just senselessly seeking me out to say nasty things?
            My "big girl panties" have been on for a long time which is why I do not retaliate with a strong argument like "oh you fucker always saying shit blah blah" I could but then back to the whole point of this, I would be banned.

            My point is not that he is just a cyberbully cause if he was just a cyberbully it wouldn't matter, it only matters because he provokes a mob, where multiple people join in and make fun at my expense. In my opinion that should never be allowed in the discord server. He has done this multiple times, and in the very first instance this happened I was muted for arguing (also not really a rule, but a silent rule). So I want you to see, that if i could retaliate in the same way he does, I would have already but biasness as it is, it seems only one person is allowed to troll and is supported by none other than the moderator himself. Or so it would seem....

              I honestly think that while your concerns are valid there will always be people like that out there and you just have to thicken your skin and deal with it. If you stop one there will be an uncountable number of fags like them out there to continue the job, so just tell yourself they're not worth it. But I don't agree with the things people are doing. They need to remember that the behind the username is a real person.

                So let me get this straight. The official discord of a huge company like Qidian allows it's members to call girls whores just because?

                Just saying generally even tho one of the first rules are:

                1. Courtesy is but prioritized at all times, thus speak kindly as thou shalt not hurt with thy words. The world maketh all brothers and sisters; should there be discontentment today, thou shalt meet thereon and forego resentment with a smile. Dear users, please get along with each other.

                2. Thou shalt never spread influence of the evil, advertisements, and objects of obscenity to the requiescence of our alliance. Spam and mature content are forbidden.

                Looks like a Discord server with trash mods or lack of any. You should try to find better communities to chat in, if the issue isn't solved...

                  Daoist_Phoenix Again I'm more concerned about the bias structure of the server than the person themselves. He just so happens to be my only agressor, the one person I know without a doubt will bring my name up randomly in the server as he has randomly done today. He sought me out, that is my problem with it.

                  Trolls come and go, but he never seems to go and even when I am not there to receive the trolling he continues. That is the essence of a bully, a troll won't even really remember your name because they just throw bullshit out their ass. This guy perpetuated mob behavior from other users. I've seen it happen more than once, this time I wasn't even there to receive it and I feel like if I were to do the same I would be banned and that is where my problem lies. Is that if I have to be held to those standard or I'm banned why the fuck isn't he?

                  A mod posted this directly after I broke a silent non listed rule about colored roles.

                  The rules are here for a reason, ignoring rules (or channel topics) repeatedly and ignoring warnings will result in a server mute. After being unmuted, ignoring the rules again will result in the user's being XP reset. If it happens a third time, the user will be banned.

                  None of these things have taken place for this person. And I want to know how long they will continue to allow this.

                    FatedBlade There are no mods... literally 0. Flaffy says millman is a mod, but he isn't even a mod. He only does some bot stuff. It's dumb how there are no mods in such a big server. >.<

                        Tugster If he wasn't a mod he wouldn't be able to mute and unmute, if he wasn't a mod he wouldn't be writing the rules, if he wasn't a mod he wouldn't be sending people DMs threatening to ban them.

                        HE IS A MOD OR ADMIN OR BOTH.

                            Flaffy

                            Hello, Flaffy.

                            As someone who has been a target for bullies for the past week, I know very well how you feel. I believe in your cause, and that all cyberbully should be wiped off the face of this planet.

                            Here are a few instances of people using verbal abuse on me.











                            As you can see, there are over 100 different instances where many nasty individuals are calling me 'Shameless' for no apparent reason.

                            To hear so many insults despite showing kindness and love to them, I was heart-broken, shattered, depressed. I was even on verge of killing myself. However, you have to remember that there will always be people out there who will be there for you, such as this nice lady, who although sometimes join in on the bully, helps me from the shadows.

                            I can also see that you have yet to stabilize your Dao Heart. You need to spend more time cultivating, so I will introduce you to a few secret Cultivation Techniques called, 'League of Legends,' 'Counter-Strike: Global Offensive,' and 'Twitter'.

                            Do not give up. Stay Strong. Keep loving yourself. And most importantly, ignore the bullies.

                                BaiSiwa Had you told them to stop? That you did not like it? That you thought those things were not funny?

                                And had you attempted to get the mod to do something about it? Did they ignore you really? I know that happened to me and that is what annoys me the most. Not the cyberbullying itself, the fact that I told pinged a mod and told a mod before about the behavior of that person and they shrugged it off and did nothing. If someone is seeking to hurt you with their words, it is AGAINST THE RULES PUT IN THE SERVER.

                                Courtesy is but prioritized at all times, thus speak kindly as thou shalt not hurt with thy words.

                                I was muted when I first came to the server because of that rule, and despite that no one else was, when I was just reacting. It's never ok to bully, but if the server is allowing it, they should be more clear on their rules, and the enforcement of them. Not just ONE but them ALL.

                                No one should have to ignore and be forced to turn the other cheek when they are being chased down, I would rather break out the machete and the kill the fuck but only WE are chained by the rules that should have prevented the chase to begin with.

                                    Saint beautiful and manificent cat should stay away from using the word fluffy, flurry, furry, and or any of its derivatives.
                                    These words traumatize me.
                                    :fearful: :scream:

                                        Miya That was something I thought was common sense, but it seems to be in their nature to have such idiocy.

                                            Storm6666 Look at that, the corruption of it all. I had an editor tell me once before in DM that they were not mod and I shouldn't talk to them about the stuff but to millman. I guess you know they want nothing to do with the stuff cause it gets sticky when they are your friends and they probs have some other work to do too. SMH

                                              Supreme_Idler one of the implicit rules of our sect is that we share our popcorn :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn:

                                              Flaffy Billdoor calling me names is not new, I have asked repeatedly for him to stop, I blocked him, I blocked his accomplice Neverfire long ago.

                                              if you block the both of them, you shouldn't be able to read their messages. but from the screenshots, it looked like you unblock the both of them.

                                              Flaffy Though I thought Qidian wanted to have a healthy environment?

                                              no one claims qidian is a healthy environment. they might try to make it one, but how to ensure inclusivity and nondiscriminatory comments and still allow for the expression of personal opinions.

                                                      Flaffy We're not told anything about it, I think we're more of a last resort type of mod, not the one actively enforcing the rules. Rather, when bots spamming messages appear in the chat we can ban them.

                                                        Miya no from my screenshot I viewed the blocked message, because as I said, the convo was about me. Saint is not blocked and neither was phoenix both of which asked him a question saint making it clear it was about me. I viewed the blocked messages to see what and why exactly i was being discussed. I did not suspect it would be anything like that, I thought it was just a simple haven't seen her ina while kind of convo, only for it to be revealed as something rude.

                                                        Naught canst be achieved without terms and rules. The alliance treaty twixt us sees thee stay soothfast to two terms. Whosoever violates either of the two shall be warned for the first offense, kept silent for the second, and repudiated alliance for the third.

                                                        1. Courtesy is but prioritized at all times, thus speak kindly as thou shalt not hurt with thy words. The world maketh all brothers and sisters; should there be discontentment today, thou shalt meet thereon and forego resentment with a smile. Dear users, please get along with each other.
                                                        2. Thou shalt never spread influence of the evil, advertisements, and objects of obscenity to the requiescence of our alliance. Spam and mature content are forbidden.

                                                        Those seem like rules to promote healthy server environment. In the discord server, it clearly states that and since millman did not change the rules I suspect they will still be enforced, thus making it seem like it wanted a healthy environment. So my statement of thoughts assumptions are clear and justified.

                                                          Flaffy Flaffy chan, as someone that is not involved with all this problem, and just now read your reply to BaiSiwa post, i have to say, dont be sad and try to not get all heated in this, after all, if they from the start didnt think af being nice and not toxic, is even worth it to put all of that in their faces? Do they even care? Is that worth your time? I support your cause, hope you dont feel depresed and can continue to do what you love.

                                                          And Baisiwa, I feel really sad of your problem, Bulling something that should not even exist, so i will tell you what my mother, in my younger days, used to tell me, If they hit you son, kill them Hope it gets all better for you.

                                                          Sincerely and with love, Mr.Rabbit.

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